Don’t judge people for the choices they make when you don’t know the options they had to choose from.
Don’t judge, every act that one commits had different options to choose from. Looking at the outside, it might seem simple.
We always provide a solution to the problems of other people. Oftentimes, we overanalyze their situation and try to come up with crazy endings.
We are caught by the situation and often than not we judge them.
But, try to dig deep. The person that you are criticizing all the time has a story to tell. It is a unique story that you can’t even comprehend unless you lend an ear.
A 24-year-old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…
The boy said, “Dad, look the trees are going behind!”
Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24-year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…
The boy again said, “Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”
The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…
“Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?” The old man smiled and said…“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today.”
Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.
The surprising truth is, we are the ones who overanalyze things. Just focus on your life.
Moreover, you already have a lot on your plate. Instead of gossiping on someone’s life, try to review yours.
There are a lot of things that we take for granted by talking about other people. Unsolicited advice sometimes gives a different perception that you are just eavesdropping.
You are not a Judge
If you truly care for that person, don’t talk about them behind their back. Always remember, that every one of us is going through something.
And, peoples gossip alway aggravates the situation. Be one of those people who chose to be above the gossip. Lift the person’s spirit instead of putting them down.
Avoid those people who chose gossip over solution. Avoid judging other people. You don’t know what it took someone to get out of bed, look and feel as presentable to face the day.
Much less, you never truly know the daily struggles of others. Avoid judging my choices if you don’t understand my reasons.
People are struggling and you never know what kind of battle they are fighting. Try to be more compassionate. Understand, that each of us has a different journey.
Try to find happiness within oneself and you’ll never find a time talking about other lives.
Live every day as if it’s your last. Your actions have the opposite reaction. Furthermore, you can hurt someone by simply judging their actions.
Stop judging their path if you haven’t walked their journey. Judge me if you walk a mile in my shoes or live a day in y life.
People will say anything that they like. Each of us has a choice. We must make a choice of not judging someone based on the superficial things that we see.