At the end of every goodbye

Goodbyes end a chapter in your life. But, it will be the start of a new beginning. And, ending is always painful. The thought of ending something is already a struggle. What are the things that you need to to do at the end of every goodbye?

The end of every goodbye is always painful. It’s hard to start a new chapter in your life especially after ending a relationship with the person that you thought you will spend your life with.

Above all, the process of even saying goodbye is already a struggle. It doesn’t just click in your mind in a second.

There are a lot of things that you will consider before saying goodbye. Most of it, are simple things that make your relationship complicated.

The relationship has stages. The first stage is the dating phase. You both have late-night conversations. In addition to the late-night conversation, you do send sweet notes, text, Instant messages and emoji’s to make that special feeling that they are loved.

Talking to that person is never-ending. You do a lot of things together. Watching movies and eating outside.

Both of you can discuss anything under the sun.  But, I do believe that it does not love. It just the chemistry or infatuation that you feel towards that person.

Then comes, the getting to know stage. Here you will realize and know that not so good things about that person. 

After that comes the separation page. You both realize that you have different lives to deal with.   

End of every Goodbye


In addition, you have families, errands, and friends to meet and attend to. The two of you is entering the stage where you don’t call each other or even send a sweet message.

But, it doesn’t mean that you don’t love that person. Let me tell you,  this is the reality stage. Love exists because even though there are a lot of things that bother you daily, you still think of that person.

Even if you don’t see him that often, you still felt the love that they have for you. After this, you felt ignore and thinks of breaking out with him.

Goodbyes are not for the faint heart. Uttering the word goodbye is already a test whether you truly love him or not.

Remember, before deciding on something make sure that you are not in the height of your emotion.

Emotion clouds our mind. It makes our viewpoint narrower.  Make sure that you are well-rested when you decide about something.

Avoid abrupt decisions. It will make your life complicated and most of the time you will regret it at the end.

At the end of every goodbye are never-ending tears. Just let your tears flow. It will lighten up your move.

Just realize that there is a process in moving on. Doing productive things is the best way to divert your attention.

You will feel useless, not appreciated and even worthless after.

Finally, be resilient. Thinking about your past will not make you a better person. Just realize that everything happens for a reason.

And, in every goodbye, there is a promise of a new beginning. Make your first step towards greatness and you’ll find someone that is really destined for you.


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