Love is patient, Love is kind. It does not envy and Boast. In addition, It is not proud, not rude and self-seeking. Love is not easily angered and keeps no record of wrongs. Does not delight in evil and rejoices with the truth. It always Protects, trust and always perseveres.
Love is patient and Love is kind. People nowadays confuse Wedding with marriage. They see marriage often as an extravagant wedding that they see on youtube or social media post.
Don’t get me wrong, I also have a dream wedding. In addition, as the technology of digital age advance, so are the quality and of photos and videos that are in our reach.
Weddings are complicated today. There are a lot of knick knacks that you need to dwell with to get the picturesque wedding that you want.
Attention to details is of the highest priority. There is more checklist than ever. But, have you thought of preparing for your marriage instead of your wedding?
I think we can all agree that marriage is much more important compared to an extravagant wedding.
But, instead of focusing our attention to marriage our eyes are fixed on the glittering social media post and pictures of the dream wedding that we need.
Love is… Working on Your Marriage
Lots of lists came up this past few years. You need to contact a photographer, makeup artist and even an event organizer to start.
Furthermore, engagement and proposal is still a different thing. We have lots of money to spare for a couple of pictures and videos that we can post on our social media account.
Is it worth it? Does the people that I’ve seen your post share the same feeling of happiness when they see your post.
I think not, especially when you are only social media friends. Most of the time, they feel lesser compare to you.
The good intention that you had when you posted that picture is masked by jealousy of others towards your life.
Moreover, there are a lot of studies that show how most people felt depressed after scrolling on their social media account.
You can’t avoid comparing yourself to them. How they have achieved so much success and had already gone into an adventure at an early age.
And you, yes you my darling is just on the corner scraping pennies to get by day by day.
But let’s go back to the process of getting married versus marriage. Fairytale wedding set-up and out of this world concept are the trend of today’s wedding.
Unique and extravagant wedding preparation has a lot of likes and views on the web. Even so, no one features life after they got married.
Love Never keeps any record of Wrongs
Most of them cared only on how people will think about them after the wedding. No one seems to have started a checklist on how marriage should work.
It is the most important aspect and most of us didn’t think to prepare for it. No extravagant pictures during an everyday encounter.
In fact, studies show that the extravagant and beautiful the wedding usually leads to separation in a few years.
Each of us has an opinion on how a wedding and a marriage should be. Moreover, we don’t need to compare our relationship to others.
Social media post are merely a mask to cover up the bigger picture.
Not all sweet social post is true. Undoubtedly, couples who don’t post on social media has a higher chance of getting along together.
We don’t need to conform with the norm of the society on how we should enter marriage. Your wedding is only a part of it.
It might be one of the highlights initially. But, it will never be the basis of the strength of your marriage.
Work and plan more on your Marriage rather than on your wedding. It is utmost important.