Success and Dependence. If success is really dependent on someone liking you or not liking you, and you have to teeter on the kind of tightrope of how you’re supposed to act and how you’re supposed to look and who you are. It is just not a Healthy way to live.- Ellen Degeneres
Success and dependence. Where do you rely your success from? And how do you define success?
Most of us will say that your success came from the person that believed in you when no one would.
Defining success is a tricky part. As we grow old, success differs. Furthermore, we now realize that Wealth, Fame and power is not the success that we really want.
Great power comes with great responsibility. Truly, success is one of our inspiration to wake up every day and do our best to perform well on our work, school or ventures.
We want to taste success and all the things that came with it. As you move up, you’ll have a clear picture that everything is just the same.
People get jealous and more people will throw shades at you. You will then realize that true friends and relationships are more important.
When you are living in a big house and have enormous money in your bank account, you will attract the wrong people.
In return, the wealth that you worked hard for is just paying for the company of other people that don’t want to be genuinely with you.
My dear, your success, as well as your happiness, doesn’t depend on others. Therefore, you need to learn how to find and create happiness within yourself.
Unless you find your true self you will not be happy.
Success and Dependence
Learn from your past and make the future your friend. Success can be defined in different things. Find something that you love and you don’t need to work all the days of your life
It applies to all. You will only be successful once you find someone or something that burns the fire inside you.
When you are thinking of it constantly without straining yourself too much. Then, you realize that this is the best thing that happened to you.
You will go to work without taking a day off. The opinion of others doesn’t drown your thoughts and eagerness to learn and innovate.
The dynamic setup makes your nerve come alive and you will feel that everything is in place
Finally, success and its true meaning will reveal to you in due time. We need to establish that success is not the final destination.
Success will only be a highlight of your journey. You will still have low points and you need to remember that it is not the end.
As long as you live, you have a chance to better yourself and be align with your purpose. Living is already a gift.
If you are bombarded today with a lot of problems, be thankful. Sunshine is more beautiful after the rain.
The harder you work for something the greater you’ll feel when you achieve it.