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The Problem is not them, It is You!

Most People with real Problems think something outside of them controls what they think and feel. They see themselves as just reacting to their environment. I want them to learn that there’s something in them that regulates their emotions, regardless of what other people think.

Problem is a part of life. Life without problems is empty. Actually, it’s not the problem that forces us to do stupid things.

It is how we control our emotions and attitude towards the problem that causes us to fail every time. Furthermore, people around us have each own burden to carry.

Sometimes, talking about someone else’s problem does divert their attention from their own.

It gives them the energy to figure out what really happened and is willing to provide unsolicited opinions.

The voices outside don’t, and will not affect how you handle your own problem. They can only affect you if you’ll allow them.

Learn to accept that you don’t have control towards the opinion of others. So, stop dwelling on it. You cannot ask them to stop talking behind your back.

I’m sure that you are also guilty of this. We tend to talk about other peoples problem because we want to compare our lives to them.

The only thing that you have control over is yourself. Moreover, manage your emotions. If you are at the peak of your emotion, don’t speak ill towards others or decide on something that will greatly impact you in the future.

Your decision will be ruled by your emotion and it may not be the best for you.

On the other hand, the problem doesn’t require a solution to solve them: Instead, they require maturity to outgrow them.

The Problem

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There are problems that are beyond our expertise. But, these are the problems that will shape us in the future.

More often, we think that we can’t go through it. Meditate and be self aware. Everything will fall into its right place at the right time.

In addition, it frustrates us to know that we can’t do anything about it. You just need to trust the greater power. Problems come and go. You need to realize that it’s only temporary.

A lot of people think that their problems are far greater than others. This is why they dwell so much in it and treat people like shit. Undoubtedly, they thought they are not going through the same situation like they have.

A lot of problems in the world would disappear if we talk to each other instead of each other.

Learning to talk in a manner that is both beneficial to both parties does help. Importantly, we need to understand that each opinion is different.

What matters most is how you view y our self. Before you say ill things to other think for a minute.

Above all, learn to forgive. Forgive others especially yourself. Every sunrise is a new beginning.

You need to forget the past and don’t dwell on it. The past teaches us lessons that we can use in the future.

Don’t let your mind fool you. The problem is not the other people surrounding you. Focus on your potential and everything will be bearable.

 

 

 

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